Don't be a Missing Child

Linds Says

My Friend Allie and I are used as Examples of How to Choose Friends

Remember the things we're taught can sometimes save our lives

Plus keep us from doing stupid things

Take the Quiz- By Asking as Read

(Can this Example be like Me)

**Remembering Rules are Only to Follow to Make**

You Better Person plus keeps the World

More away from Chaos

**What Your Actions Show to Others**

Does and Will Effect Others Lives 

 

 

I am Linds

 

 

I Am Allie

 

 

 We're Best Friends Though Not Friends

**To Other Kids You See We'll Teach You**

To Run Away When You are Grounded

For Reason's that are truly based on Family Values

Our Parents Truly Do Care about Us

Yes We Can't Face the Truth

We Truely Do Cause Our Own Problems

(We will tell You Don't Follow Rules)

also We like to Play Victim 

We'll tell You How Bad We have it

  • We have a bad Home life
  • We will even tell you we're just like you our parents don't care
  • We will say how we're not allowed to listen to music use the phone have any free time we can't go to parties we can't hang with boys or have any friends

What We forget to Tell You is

  • We are always Argumentative
  • We can not Follow even Simple Rules
  • We Don't like being Grounded even though it's to teach us take a Time Out so we can stop making the same mistakes make ourselves a better person have a positive attitude see the true good in life
  • We abuse priviledges by not working for them
  • We use the phone without permission
  • We hang with other kids who don't challenge us to do better
  • We listen to negative music even though told not to or even sneak cd's or swap MP3's online We forget to tell You Yes Negative Music can effect Your Life
  • We Don't tell You trying to Act Bad as in Homie Gangsta Gang banger Jugganette Clown Posse Rolling Hard or being a Taggard OCC Peckerwood as does the Clothes You wear The Signs You Flash the Dark Make Up The Dark Black Hooded Sweat Shirts or Writing on Hands Arms or Bodies the Body Piercings Tattoo's not only Set You Up for the Police and Others to Judge You plus make You Look really Stupid... they will also
  1. Get You Bad Grades
  2. Get You Friends who really don't care
  3. Get You around Drugs and Alcohol
  4. Put You in the Wrong Place at the Wrong Time
  5. Put You in Fear of Pregnancy even STD's
  6. Have You Looking over Your Shoulder watching Your Back Walking in Circles Miles and Miles trying to find a place to hide Have People telling You! "You can't stay here We know Your kind" while Your Hungry Lonely Tired and have No Money! No Place to Stay!
  7. Yes even have Other Bad Kids Threaten You! ... Call You Names ... While Good Kids will run the other way they already know Your Bad News ... how you ask? they listened to others and that's why smarter then you!
  8.  Plus with Your New Reputation be saying the truth about how they truly see you! ... as we have said Negative brings on only negative is Only You who has messed up your life ...Kids can be Mean and We say is only you who put yourself there by listening to others even more stupid then you ... even adults can give you bad advice ...those that themselves follow all the above ...their message also what harm can it do ... were maybe never taught family values ... better yet ask do they follow the "Lead by Example Rule" ...whereby they teach you how you can improve your life by doing what they also tell you to do!

How Do We Know? We're the Kids

You Don't want to Hang Out With

That is till We Stop Doing what We do

There is still Hope for Us and You!

Called Standup and Do The Right Thing

Listen to the Advice of People

Who Truly Love You

Yeah Those People!

Who are All Over Your Rear

Saying When are You Going

To Wake Up and be the Person

You Really Should be !

You Have the Potential

To Be Somebody

Yeah You Can if You Try! Start Today!

 





Rules My Mom/Step Dad Taught Me

  • I must Always get permission before going somewhere. My Parents are concerned for my safety
  • Parents must know the place, the parent or legal guardian responsible, before allowed to visit anyone ... they must also talk and verify with them ... who they are ... the place they live is this a safe enviroment ... also if visiting a parent or guardian must be present during visit ... and be deemed a responsible adult with no alcohol or drug usage in my presence ... I am also not allowed to be in a vehicle without prior permission ... this is for my own safety also to insure I am where I say I am and my whereabouts are known in the event of an emergency
  • I am also Not Allowed to visit in area's or other places deemed unsafe these are off limits to me ... I Do Know these area's that are not allowed (This is not a put down on the people who live in these area's it is for my safety as other parents living in these area's would also tell me and also have) I am also not allowed to visit area's where people gather for purposes of alcohol or drug usage such as street corners parks shopping malls shops stores that are known area's for such activity ... places I am allowed are places that offer a families value enviroment
  • I am Not allowed phone calls both either ones I make or received calls unless parents know who calling or talking to. This is to keep me from talking to wrong people... I am also not allowed to give the house number or my cell number out to others without permission
  • Phone calls are not to be made after 9 PM this is called common decency only calls made after this time will be ok'd by both parents guardians as being ok
  • No Phone Calls to Boys or Men ... Men being 18 years or Older because can be Deemed a Distraction ... Men 18 and above should not be Talking to Me in 1st place unless a Close Friend to Parents or a Relative ... I am asked to wait until at least 16 before asking for dating priviledges thereby I can mature enough to know what my mental thoughts and physical feelings truly are (This Applies for Boys too). This is not to dis-allow me from talking to at school or while in a school or at a social event ... 18 is actual preferred age being it will not distract me from school and getting my education ... *Girls also deemed distraction or detrimental to my well being as well as music or other activities will also not be allowed* ... these are values taught to me to promote a positive outlook on life
  • I Do know the Difference between Rights and Priviledges ... Priviledges are Earned  Rights are Given as to What I might or not be allowed ... As a Minor less then 18 I am not given the Rights an Adult has ...My Parents are as Myself Responsible for My Actions and by Law can Deem Rules I must Follow till 18 ... These Laws pretaining to Guidelines for Parenting to Children under 18  ... I am also not allowed to Smoke ... Drink ...Do Drugs (Both State and Federal Law)... Get Pierced (California Law January 1st 2006 No One under 18 even with Adult Consent)... Get Tattoo'd (Federal Law No Person under 18 is a Felony deemed as Child Batterment for anyone applying a Tattoo to a Minor Child ) ... I am also aware of the Patriot Act regarding Guidelines regarding Children under 18 and how Laws applied Help Schools to Rule in Manners of what can be deemed Subversive Behavior that apply to those under 18
  • I was Never Given Parental Permission to Pierce Mark or Tattoo Myself nor Wear Heavy Make Up ... I have not been Taught to have Hate Prejudice or Jealousy from My Mom or Step Dad
  • I am not Allowed to Wear Clothes that can be Deemed hateful,racist,sexist or have negative connotations... I am also asked to wear normal clothes not dark in colors so as to promote a positive outlook to others to also look clean and friendly in manner
  • I am not allowed on My Computer without permission also it is agreed I will be supervised as to content I am viewing ... I am not allowed to write profanity in text messages chats or emails ...I am also not allowed to call others I meet online with as above phone permissions this is not allowed without permission as is not to give my address or personal home or cell phone number ... I am also not allowed to sign up for programs unless given permission

The Reason for this Information

If You Meet Me and I Say it is Ok to Do Something 

You Better Question Am I Following above Rules

Then I would Advice You Talk to My Mom/Step Dad 1st

Then You Will Find They Truly Care About Me

In Other Words Call and Insure it is Ok 1st 

Plus Know if it is After Dark and I say it is Ok to be there

I am not following the Rules! and the Sheriff or Police have been Called

My Mom also for My Protection Gives Permission

To Detain Me till She or the Proper Law Authorities arrive

*Stated Warning- If Not Complied-You Shelter or Hide Me*

You also will be if found there with you unless prior ok'd visit

You will be Prosecuted to the Full Extent of the law

 

 

We Ask that all Parents who care about

Their Children also apply these Rules

These are the Rules

Linds Mom & Stepdad Follow

Plus also Teach Linds Daily

If see Her Not Following Them

Please Bring it to Her Attention

 

 

 

Yeah Things Change

(Other Stories they Forget to Tell You)

When Your a Run-Away 

You see Playing Hard Changes Your Attitude

It Truly Makes You Do Stupid Things

You See I Missed My 15th Birthday

Waking up at Home because want to show

How Stupid I am and How Truly Out of Control

Question is Why Can't I See it?

This is all due to thinking what would be Cool 

Hanging with the Wrong People Pot Smoking Alcohol and Partying

Did I Mention was Picked up by the Sheriff Patrol sitting in a Park at 12:30am day before my Birthday and returned home to my Mom after almost a week gone like wow had my Pot Shirt on All Black! I was looking like a Stoned Crazy Hard looking Home Girl

Yeah Like was just about to roll a joint ... Luckily dropped it ... When Picked up was with another Run away from the other side of town

When Told by the Sheriff's Deputy also Probation Department (like I was trying to score some smoke when a stupid probation search went down on this really stupid kid ... hey just being in wrong place wrong time ... hey I even told them my wrong name to get to go home ... yeah my Mom and Step Dad picked me up ... Like couldn't get out there Fast enough)

Heck I was even told Be Smart by My High School Dean of Attendence  My Counselor with My Mom present ... before to stay out of the Area when even after school (You Think I listened?)

Like No Way I took off from Home as soon as could ... Like was Promised a Cool B Day Party ... Like those Friends never came through ... Like How Rude!

Yeah Look at My Grades My School My Friends

You Will see the Path to becoming a Loser (Think I See it No Way)

My Stepdad also says "I am Not a Loser unless put Myself there!"

Man Do You Think I'd listen to His Advice Come On! He's a Step Dad! I don't have to follow his Rules

Why Don't I See People Love Me? because Hey I Don't have to Listen to them I am 15

Yeah whats even Funnier I come from a Home

That My Mom and Others Love Me

Question is Why Can't I also See that too!

Plus People Who Hide or Harbor Me

**When I Get Busted So Will You**

The Sheriff The Police The School ... Plus Others too

Have All been Called and My Circle is Getting Smaller

You see My Step Dad said ... Never Have Me Come Looking for You!

I Will Make Dog the Bounty Hunter look like a Punk!

Besides Duane the Dog and His Crew if knew what into would be doing the same

They'd be saying ... "Hey We Don't want to Post Bail for a Girl Who should Know Better"

My Stepdad like Dog the Bounty Hunter knows

Others will Gladly Give Up Your Whereabouts

Just Merely Looking as Stupid and Stoned as You Do!

Others will know Who You are!

Yeah You May Ask Why Didn't I Listen?

People who know My Mom & Stepdad know they care

Others Will see through My Lies ... No Matter where I Go!

*Be Warned Look Out for Me ... I Can Sometimes Do What Not Supposed to Do!*

My Mom says Call Them 24 Hours a Day

If seeing me doing stupid things

*Also if See Me Wandering During School Hours Without Her*  

661-391-9858 Her Name is "Sooz" My Stepdad "Jer"

This above Section is truly to Help Others to See

Kids are our Hope for the Future ... If Love Your Kids/Teen

Then Let them know You care and let them know also

Their Dress Their Manner Their Attitude

**Is Truly How Others See and Judge Them**

*Special Note* This is Not to Berate or Belittle Linds

Linds is a Really a Good Kid and as a Kid/Teen she has to Test the Water She has to be Argumentaive Demanding even Most Times Lazy ... The Thing is Linds does know when has Stepped over the Line ... It's just some Lines are not to be crossed ... Guidelines Rules or what ever may like to call them are set so we as Humans Respect each other ... and also stated makes the World less Chaotic and with less Chaos in Normal Day Life

Linds now Slowly is realizing All Things have Consequences

Plus Now how Her Actions Worry Others and Hurt Others

Her Curiousity Cost Not Only Herself  She Now Knows it Effects Others

The Sometimes Hard Learned Lesson 

Is Truly the Best Learned Lesson

Linds just Hopes Others Don't Follow Her Path

 

 

 Our Hopes are You Heed Linds Example

  • Linds is a Good Kid she like others wants to see the good values in others ... though curiousity got her into things never should have been ... she still makes bad character judgement though slowly she's found ... supporting the underdog is a great idea if pretaining to maybe a sport team or class mate others tease or ridicule ... she needs to not choose a true loser underdog who are actually the people who don't even like themselves ... "There is a reason people are telling you stay away from that person!"
  • Linds has learned when others tell you to stay out of an area it is truly about Safety ... also law enforcement if warned they truly do mean what they say ... tolerance will be only for the time before warned ... after that Legal Action can and will be taken ... it is called they are "Truly Doing their Job they are looking out for Others Safety also Your Own"  
  • Linds has also learned when you think you can truly hide ... the people who hide you are truly not the people you want to seek ... They also will use this against you! because now they feel you owe them ... also beware if an illegal activity it will make them also think you will turn them in ... they will also think you will lie to them because you are just like them ... worse yet if hiding you they have no respect for legal laws so physical sexual or mental abuse are also games they will play with you

The Other Things Linds Learned Your Circle is Not that Big!

  1. Linds Supposed Good Friends ... Have Gotten Busted and Thrown in Juvenile Hall
  2. Linds Supposed Good Friends ... Have Gotten Suspended or Expelled from School
  3. Linds Supposed Good Friends ... Have Gotten their Reputation Known as "Bad " "Liar" "Stoner" "Tweaker" "Stupid" "Ignorant" "Lazy" "Thief" "Will Not Follow Orders"
  4. Linds Supposed Good Friends ... Have Gotten Drunk High Stoned Tweaked Amped Spaced Methed Iced Hit the Big E Crashed Smashed Burned also Used Abused Punched Hit Beat Bruised least we not forget Left Behind Sexed Up and Pregnant

In Other Words Lost their Childhood Innocence to Stupidity

 Others Now Know Them for the Bad Choices Made

They Also Learned Others Truly Knew

Where Their Road was Taking Them

So We Hope You Will Not See This as a ... "Oh Gee Look Another Messed up Kid this Can't Happen to My Child/Teen" ... or if a Child/Teen as Gee another Wacko Adult trying to tell me something already know with the excuse ... "This Will Never Happen to Me" ... facts be known ... Yes this Happens Now and has since the Beginning of Time! ... The Thing is the Urgency is ... If Don't Do Something Now! It May in the Future be to Late ... Grades Can Not be Changed ... Bad Experiences Can't be Changed ... Missed Opportunities Can't be Changed ... Then truly look at the 2 Most Important things in Life Physical Body or Mental Building as a Child or Teen Can be Detrimentally Damaged ...  More importantly the Moral Values as well as Your Educational Background that are Established in Your Youth Do and Will Carry through Your Adult Life ...

We Hope You See Why We Have Written this to Help as Many People as Can!

Yes We Do Care and Hope You Share this with Others Thanks Jer/Sooz/Linds

 



 
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